im a non-smoker...but it's their freedom to smoke in their hse..can't say anything...the world can't go the way we want...we have to accept it i guess...i can't possibly go upstairs/downstairs..knock on the family's door and say pls go dwnstairs to smoke if they wanna smoke...invading their rights already...maybe they are real nice ppl..but becoz they smoke...we see them in another way....hmmm...abit unfair to them oso...
..no offence ok..im juz saying how i feel =)...but how to force hubbie to quit smoking lei???
he say when i agree to get preg he will quit...threatened lei!!!
Think its difficult to ask someone to quit unless they do it for their own sake. To quit for GF, WIFE, CHILDREN, MOTHER, FATHER, useless they will resume the habit onces they meet up their kakis. Dun see cigar as a simple thing. Its associated with social and emotional ties. People sometimes smoke for peer acceptances, smoke for environment acceptances, smoke for comfort, smoke for pressure reduction and last but not least, smoke for leisure (nothing to do). It all centered against "ME". So, to quit it, it muz be out of the concern for "ME, the "SELF".
